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How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 11:27

How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

I feel Forgiveness is not about letting someone off the hook it is about releasing yourself from the chains of resentment.

As for cutting ties, I always remind myself that it is wise to assess the situation and act according to reason, not emotion.

👉🔹If a relationship no longer contributes to your growth or inner tranquility, you are clear that the act on other,s part was not inadvertant instead intentional then it is perfectly rational to step away.

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Ultimately, as Marcus Aurelius said,

The Stoics would say that we cannot control the actions of others,

Were knights’ lances practical weapons, or were they just for sports?

Choose to surround yourself with peace, not pain, and trust that the right relationships will align with your path.

You are not abandoning anyone you’ are simply protecting your own harmony.

we can control our response. Holding onto anger only harms you, so forgiveness becomes an act of reclaiming your own peace.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Your act of abondening is purely self care and forgiving in this case doesn't mean remaining in contact too.

You can forgive and for self care can always cut ties.

Be blessed

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⭐ 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

As ,Seneca very rightly told us